Happy New Years Ladies! 2013 is here and I will be in Maui Hawaii next year for our 15th Anni...
Hi Ladies...even though I am on hiatus from planning there are still things that have to be done.
So this past weekend I held a bridesmaid meeting and I AM TOTALLY DISAPPOINTED. 2 of my girls were almost an hour late without reason. They could not stay focus to save their lives and I feel as though we got ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ACCOMPLISHED.
My cousin who is my Maid of Honor was just totally out of line. To me as the MOH she should have been the one that keeps everyone in line and helps set the tone for how the meeting will be ran, unfortunately to date it has not worked out that way. She has been late and very NEGATIVE at both meetings that we have had.....AND I'M SO OVER IT. She complained about the dresses "I DONT LIKE IT" , when the girls tried to discuss the bridal shower and bachelorette party she changed the subject and wants to have the bridal shower 2 weeks before the wedding and the bachelorette party 1 month before the wedding...UH NO!!!
On top of that I went dress shopping before the meeting and showed the girls my dress that I LOVE, and they told me that was not my dress because I did not cry....before I knew it I said some very explicit words to them, and let them know that everybody does not go through that.
I just dont know what to do...but I have said that I will not be holding anymore meetings because I feel as though we get nothing accomplished.
So what I have decided to do (suggested by FH) is just meet with 3 of the 6 bridesmaids that have been helpful and cooperative and whatever the 3 of us agree upon the rest will have to roll with or exclude themselves.
Sorry for the long RANT but I was to tears and was truly PISSED off.
So ladies how do you deal with NEGATIVE BRIDESMAIDS???