This is romanticbride09's Blue Wedding!

Ok......Everytime I Have Asked Him What Kind Of Wedding He Wants He Either Says.....'' I've Been Thinking About It ' Or '' Whatever Makes You Happy '' Both, Might I Add, In That Dumbfounded Man Voice.

Agggghhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How Am I Supposed To Plan This Thing Without His Input? I'm About To Just Say '' Give Me Your Attendants Numbers And Me And Your Mother Will Do The Guest List For You. By The Way, Here Is The Time And Place. BE THERE! '' Or........I Can Always Hire A Maid To Dress Him That Morning And A Damn Driver To Drive Him There. At Least He Won't Be Late!

Is Anybody Else's Groom-To-Be Being Difficult Or Am I The Only One '' Blessed '' With This Problem?

How Much Planning Have Your Guys Taken On?
My MOH Said Not To Even Bother Asking Him. Her Husband Did The Same Thing. He Left It All To Her.

Now, This Could Be A Good Thing.......I Get What I Want.....Which, I Usually Do ( He Spoils Me ;) )

Or, Really Bad If I Leave Key Elements Out That He Will Eventually Point Out Later. Then I Will Feel Bad. :(

I Don't Know. I Usually Am In Charge Of All Our Dual Decisions.
Picking Out Daily Clothes For Us Both, Christmas Cards, Any Occasin Gift Giving ( He Pays, I Shop ), Food, Decor, Vacation Plans...........It Does Get Old Though.

Maybe I'm Just Being Silly, But Some Things Are Important To Me. Like Having Calla Lillies ( My Nana's Favorite Flower ), Olive Branches ( Symbolizes Our Faith ), Our Families( Of Course ),

Sorry. Computer Screwed Up And I Cound Type....

Any Way, I Really Want This Day To Be Important To Him Too. I'm Stuck!

So, How Much Help Should I Plan To Get From Him? How Much Are Your Guys Contributing?

And Tell Me If I Am Over Reacting. You Can Be Honest.

Please Comment!

Ok.......So Now That I've Got Some Honest Opinions On Fake Flowers.......I Think I'm A Little Over My Head!!!! I Don't KNow ANYTHING About Flowers Exept That Your Suppose To Put Asprin In Their Water And I Kill Them :(

The Good Things About Fake Flowers Is That They Last. Very Good Quality Seeing As How I Like To Do EVERYTHING Myself. I'm Not A Controll Freak Or Anything. Just ave A Creative Mind And Nobody Can Execute What You Invision As Well AS The Person Envisioning.
Second Good Thing Is That I Can Save On Out Of Season Flowers........By The Way, We Plan On Getting Married Sept 12 Of Next Year. Begining Of Fall. What Flowers Are In Season Then? I'll Make It Easier. Here Are THe Ones I Want......

Calla Lillies ( A Must )
Roses
Stephanotis
Peonies
Olive Branches (Not Really A Flower But Just Making A Mental List)

Are Any Of These In eason In Fall???

But Like Vix Pointed Out, They Look Fake. I Didn't Know That You Can Tell In Pictures.

The Good Thing About Real Flowers Is......Well....Their BEAUTIFUL!!
I Love The Smell Of Fresh Flowers. I Don't Get Many Flowers......Mostly A Dozen Red Roses Every Birthday From Mr. Bobby. But Like I Said, Mine Never Last Long No Matter What I Do......I Even Tried Singing To The Damn Things.....Nope...They Died Fast! Plus,
So Now I'm At A Loss......How Will I Store Them And What Do You Do If You Buy Them And Assemble Yourself???? Please Help Me!!!

Ok, I Need Some Insight Here. I Want To Know What Everyone Thinks About Silk Flowers VS The Real Deal. I'm On A Tight Budget, And Honestly, I'd Rather Spend The Money On Other Things Such As The Reception And Photos. But What Do You Guys Think? My MOH Had All Silk Flowers At Her Wedding And They Looked Great. Plus I Still Have My Centerpiece And Bouquet. So What Do You Ladies Think? Are Silk Flowers Cheesy And Tacky Or Can They Be Elegant?

Please Let Me Know........................Thanks!

Found This Site. Kinda Helped Me See What Flowers And Colors Work Well Together. Hope It Helps You Too!

http://www.links2love.com/weddings/make_bouquet_white_palepink_wedding.htm

So, I've Been Kinda Looking Around At The Different Posts And Such, And I Notice ALOT Of You Are Doing A Wedding Newsletter. I've Been Trying To Think Of A Way To Keep People Informed Since About All Of My Family Lives In Chicago And My Dad Lives In Georgia. I Haven't Asked My Girls To Be Bridesmaids Yet, Though I Do Know Who All I Want In THe Bridal Party. I Think That Would Be A Very Cute Way To Ask My Bridesmaids And Attendents, Then It Will Serve As A Great Way To Keep Everyone Informed.

Please Tell Me When And How I Get Started On THis. Any Pictures And Suggestions Would Be Great. Thanks!

Thanks To Everyone That Has Stopped By To Say Hello! It Makes Me Feel Very Welcomed! And Congrates To All Of You! I Will Be On Here Alot More Because Of The Friendly Posts!

AnyWayz,

Kinda Stuck On My Colors. I Love Tiffany Blue, But I Don't Want A Tiffany Themed Wedding. I Would Like An Accent Color But Don't Know What To Pick. I Want The Blue To Be The Color Of The Guys Vests And Such, But I Don't Want The Blue On The Girls To Over Power. I Was Thinking Of A Light Pink Or A Peach As An Accent, But Will That Look Funny? At The Reception, I Don't Want The Blue To Run Over. So, I Would Kinda Like To Use It Sparingly.

Any Suggestions?


** Update **

I Can't Stay Away From Pink.....I Love It....So I Think That Will Be My ''Break Up'' Color For The Blue And White.

Ok.....I'm Not Really A Blogger, So If I Sound A Lil Funny It's Because I'm Just Getting Use To This.

Me And Bobby Have Been Together For Three Years. We Have Been Through More Ups And Downs Together Than Any Relationship I Know Of. But We Also Share A Unique Bond And Friendship That Is The Definition Of True Love. He Proposed To Me In Late March Of This Year And.........I SAID YES!!!!!!! So, Here I Am.........Wondering Where In The World I Should Start At? Here's What I Got So Far........................

Date Set : September 12, 2008

Main Color : Aqua Blue

Flowers : Calla Lillies