Okay, so I might have a tendency to be a little impatient sometimes. While I can contain my excitement for long periods of time when necessary, there are certainly times where I decide that I want something and do what is necessary to get it.
Let me preface this with the fact that shortly after our first anniversary, I was certain that he was indeed the man I wanted to marry. I didn't say anything to him for more than a year. About a year later, my mother's boyfriend proposed and we were thrown into the plans of her wedding. Somehow, we stumbled upon the topic of the ring my father had given her so many years earlier, and how she wanted me to have it. A few weeks later, she gave it to Chris and I.
At this point, we had been talking about marriage for awhile and knew it was something we both wanted, but weren't sure if the time was right. When I slipped the ring on my finger, it fit perfectly. I couldn't stop smiling. I looked at him and admitted that I didn't want to take it off. When he admitted that he didn't want me to either, we decided that we would announce our engagement and start planning our wedding.
So while I may have jumped the gun on this one, and I might wish I had been more patient so he could have come up with a surprise proposal, the end result was what we both want so badly: to spend the rest of our lives together. I can't help but wonder what he would have come up with on his own though...
Am I the only one who assumed the close on their engagement?
My fiance planned a whole day and after dinner he proposed to me in front of a horse and carriage ride then we went on it and throughout downtown.
Happy Wedding Planning :-)
honestly, i think that was just such a perfect moment! we all get excited about things in life and sometimes we jump in and make it come faster lol, i know i'm guilty of that too sometimes!
congratulations & happy planning =)
ps. welcome to WBC xox
My fiance and I had been talking about getting married for about a year and finally i got so impatient I pretty much brought it up everyday. But my fiance completely had me blindsided when he proposed because I didn't expect it that day at all!!! Which was perfect, becuase everytime he took me anywhere I always wondered in the back of my mind if he would propose...
It was almost the only way to surprise me...by doing it on a random tuesday afternoon....we came home from going out for lunch and he called me into his bedroom- there he was on one knee with the ring in his hand! :)
Congrats! And welcome to WBC!!! :)