12/23/2009
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Have to change date again

OMG, it seems as if this has been the worst year ever. I have to change my date again i guess three times the charm right. I'm am just so aggravated that I have to change it again. Fh hasn't worked since Sept. He is getting unemployment but it's not the same with work he got OT, plus he brought home more than the unemployment check bring in. My car has not been working since June, so we are sharing his car which only runs on premium fuel only so we are using a lot of gas. He started looking for another job but there really isn't a lot out here plus he doesn't have a lot of education to put on his resume. Urggggggggg. On top of that he has been having problems with his shoulder and going back and fourth to the dr. a lot, who has been sending him to therepy a lot so it made it even harder to find a job. Now Miami has had a few cold days and Fh shoulder was stiff one morning had to take him to the dr. and now the doc is talking surgery sometime in Feb, something about removing some scar tissues. I have been holding down the bills and we have been using his check to take the kids out, gas, house supplies. We still have things that need to be paid for the wedding, I know I am nnot going to be able to pull this all off on my own. Although I am so excited and want to have my wedding already, I know financially I can't afford it. i was going to try and do it last minute with my taxes, but I really do not want to be that bridezella that I know the last minute stress will bring to me. BUT OMG I WANT MY WEDDING! This year in April. Ughhh.

Right now we are looking at pushing it back a year, because I want an outdoor ceramony and anything after April is hurricane season, all the way until the end of Nov. when we will be experiencing our little winter days. The thing with that we can't predict what days would be cold and which ones would be hot. I hate to pick a day to have an outdoor ceramony by the water and it's cold out. So were guessing we have to go with the early part of 2011. Ughhhhhhhh. Everytime i think about it that's all I could say.

So how many ladies had to change their date more times than wanted?
lagaylemarie's Black wedding
 |  Encinitas, CA, USA  |  12/23/2009  | 
Aww, I do know how you feel. We changed our date once, and almost thought we would have to change it twice, but we didn't. but UGGHHHHH was all I could say too! Lol. Its such a let down, no matter what the reasons are or how many times you have to do it. But you're doing the right thing. I can not tell you how frustrated I feel for a bride who is refusing to face logic, and I read post like,  "I don't work, and FH is in hospital for a month, loved one passed away, we are broke, But I want my wedding NOW!!!"   Thats not the right kind of thinking. You're thinking things through, so good for you, and don't worry three times is a charm (smile)  and it WILL happen, AND it will be worth the sacrifice.

Keep us posted and keep your head up!
damaskbride2010's Black wedding
 |  Bakersfield, CA, USA  |  12/24/2009  | 
Well i hear ya and completely understand your frustration. We were getting married May 1 2010 but since i don't work yet and fi is still in school we pushed it back to 10-10-10... However we've been engaged for 3 years and together for 6 boo
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kialin2011
 |  Owings mills, MD, USA  |  12/24/2009  | 
girl i understand because we push our date from july 17, 2010 to july 16 2011. i look at it that we have more time to plan
mibride080610's Purple wedding
 |  Flint, MI, USA  |  12/24/2009  | 
I feel your pain I just had to move our wedding back from June 18, 2010 to February 12, 2011! SO yeah its a pain but look at the bright side you have time to save more money for the wedding you want!
mintcy's Pink wedding
 |  Miami, FL, USA  |  12/27/2009  | 
Thanks ladies your comments has help ,e feel a lil better.
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