I just purchased 8 of these sets from eBay for $2.78 a piece for a total of $22.24 with FREE ship...
So tonight, my FH and I went out for dinner, and what started as a nice dinner, ended as an aruguement about wedding stuff. I just need to vent !!
As dinner ended I told him that because we are getting to the 200 day mark that within the next couple of weeks we should start working on the smaller but still important things little at a time.
he asks me
I tell him
"you know decideing on what we want to do for our centerpeices for sure and buying things little at a time"
"what? I thought you weren't buying stuff for centerpeices?!"
wtf....what makes you think i wasn't going to spend money on centerpeices? on to the next subject
"decideing on tuxes, talk to so and so about readings..." and this is when it started to all unravel
He tells me that he wants his sister to be a bridesmaids.
HELLO! my BMs are ordering their dresses in the next week, I would have to pick something...NOW! plus, he doesn't take into consideration that he may only have one sibling, and i have four. two brothers and two sisters.
I tell him that if he wants his sister, then we are having my two sisters and he will be using my two brothers as groomsmen and then proceed to find two replacement ushers.
he doesn't agree, he tells me that his sister is going to be "a big part of our lives?" What?! and mine aren't???? then proceeds to imply that because he has one sibling that he is especially close to her bcoz she's his one and only. And that i am not close to mine because i have so many more than he does. bcoz im ten years older than my youngest sibling, it must mean that she isn't as important to me as his sis is to him.
Yes, they are close but it's not like we see her everyday (she lives 3hrs away) or they meet up twice a week for lunch or even talk on the phone every other day.
OH I AM SOOOO MAD, i ended up storming out of the restaurant (we were done eating) and argueing all the way home.
I have no idea why he thinks it'd be ok for me to ask her but not my sisters or brothers. and he wants me to make sure i spend all this time getting to know his sis ( we aren't close. we like each other but i couldn't tell you anything specific about her)but i don't see him spending time with my siblings....GRRR!