My Brother Was Murdered

A Loved One Taken Too Soon...

Oh my goodness! I am so sorry to hear of your losses!
Please let me know if theres anything I can do to help!

Oh my goodness sweetie, i am so sorry for your lost.  I cannot comprehend how you and your family must be feeling at this time.  May God give you the strength to handle this grief and make you a stronger person just like your brother was.  I will keep you and your family in my prayers.  *God Bless*

Thank you girls.... it means a lot.

omg...Im so sorry to hear about your loss I have been thinking of you ofetn since you pregnancy loss. Im so sorry for you I will keep you in my continoius thoughts and prayers

I am so sorry to hear that.  I have you and your families in my prayers!

I am so sorry for your loss.  Will keep your family in my prayers.

Omg! I am so sorry for your loss. I will def keep you and your family in my prayers.

Ohhh, Jessica! I was thinking about you so much lately. I was hoping you were healing from the other news about losing the pregnancy. Now this, I'm so sorry to hear such bad news!  Pictures are an amazing thing. You will have these memories forever of your brother. I will keep you and the family in my prayers for sure, during this time of the season. So sorry to hear this. Take care...

Oh Jessica,
What a horrible horrible time, I truly hurt for you :(
I will definitely keep you and your family in my prayers.  I hope that you can draw strength from your husband and family to help you through.
God bless.

omg that made me tear up... i cant even begin to tell you how incredibly sorry i am for you.....and you family... i cant even imagine... like all these other girls i was thinking of you too and cant believe this.... your in my thoughts and prayers honey....

OMG, I am so sorry! My heart goes out to you and your family and will keep you and your family in my prayers. If there is anything you need, please don't hesitate to ask.

im so sorry for your loss. i know the feeling of losing a brother so suddenly. my only brother passed away 9 months ago. he was a victim of a drunk driver. my heart and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time.

I pray God provides strength for you and your family during these difficult times.

I pray that God keeps you and your family in his arms, providing you with comfort and faith.  I am so sorry for your loss and will say a prayer and keep you in my thoughts.

I am so sorry! I will keep you and your family in my prayers!  Keep his memory in your heart and you will always have him! Love you girl! Keep your head up! XOXO KKRBRIDE

my prayers are with you and your family

I'm so sorry to hear this. You and your family will definitely be in my thoughts and prayers.

I'm so sorry for your loss! I pray for strength for you and your family

So sorry for your loss. Stay strong <3

Goodness gracious hunny ... I couldn't believe this was your post when I seen the picture. I am so very sorry for your loss!!!!!!!! Words cannot express how sadden I felt when I read this ... a precious life taken away. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and strength needed to get through this tragedy.

"{Memory is a gift that death cannot destroy}" ..... May your happy memories with your brother keep him alive in spirit.

All the best Jessica ... xo

Oh no...that is so sad to hear. You have been through soooo much...much more than any one person should ever have to go through! Know that we are all praying for you and your family. And just remember that you are strong...you've been through so much, and yet you are still so strong!

Im so sorry to hear about your loss', so tragic and it breaks my heart. I will be thinking of you

I'm sorry sweety you're going through this you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

I am so sorry to hear that....
Stay strong the tough times will eventually pass.

I will be praying for you and your family! Stay strong hun.

all the prayers are coming ur way... we love you.

I am so so sorry to hear this. I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.

Oh my gosh. That's devastating. I'm so so so sorry to hear that. At least they are looking after each other in heaven and now you have two guardian angels on your side. Just take the time you need. You will pull through eventually. Take the time to grieve now though. Don't put it off. I wish you the best!

Oh dear!
*~*~* hugs and happy thoughts are what I'm sending your way!

I hope they catch the person or persons that murdered your brother!!! What a horrible thing to do. Taking a life is never a way of revenge or satisfaction and for someone to do that - well I just think they should rot away in a 4x4 cell for the rest of their life.

Jessica, I do not even have words. I am soooooooo sorry honey. I have tears in my eyes writing this comment and wish I had some words of comfort that were sufficient. I will definitely be praying for you and your family to get through this love. I hope that you and your family find the strength in each other and in God to help you cope with this loss. I am so sorry for your loss.

Jess, I don't know what to say except that if you need anything, please let us know. In the meantime, we will definitely keep you in our prayers.

Im so sorry to hear this! I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I pray that God grants you all comfort and strength.

I am sooooooooooooooooo sorry for your loss.  I can't even begin to imagine how you are feeling right now.  This post literally made me cry even though we have never met! Again, I really can't say enough how sorry I am to hear this news.  It's so difficult when someone losses their life at such a young age.  You and your family are in our prayers!

So sorry I am so so so sorry to hear this..my prayers are with you and your family.  Stay strong and know God will not put no more on you than you can bare.

Jessica, if you don't mind me asking you this?  Have you guys had the services yet? I want to donate funeral-tears of joys to your families & guests. I still have your address from before...Let me know if I can help you in some kind of way.

Thanks,
Rhonda

I' m so sorry for your loss. I will have you and your family in my prayers.

My prayers goes out to you and your family

how sad :( praying for you!

Sweetheart. I am so so so sorry to hear about your loss. I wish I could help ease the pain of this difficult time. I am so glad you have the memory of your special day shared with your brother-and am so glad you will always have that. I will think of you and keep you in my prayers. Stay strong.

I am soo terribly sorry to hear of this. You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers. Lots of love.

Futuremrsredford....I send my condolences to you and your family.  Tragedy is bad enough, then to have it at this time of year makes things worse.  Trust me, I know.  I feel the same way and am in need of some sort of support group or something.  I haven't shared my story (or the update of it) just yet, but my family and I have been completely devastated as of Thanksgiving week.  My 19 year old son was offered a 14 year prison term deal and he accepted it.  He already accepted a 6 year prison term on another case a month ago.  So my son is gone until he's probably 40 years old, if not longer. Long story short, he was with the wrong crowd, not even the one that did the damage(robberies), but this is one of those everyone involved must suffer sorta things. So this is the sad result-of which he still doesn't fully understand.  One minute, he was in private school, we were attending his football & basketball games, the next we are struggling with staying by his side on this.  People will often advise you to take one day at a time.  Well, I'm telling you that if you don't have the energy to even do that, then try to take on life in smaller steps-an hour at a time.  Sometimes that's all you can even commit to.  Just look deep within your heart for guidance, strength and power.  You have been and will be okay.  

I've been through tons and tons of drama myself.  So I feel ya.  Death, murder, everything. This is why I tell my friends and coworkers all the time, when they think they have it bad and start complaining about miniscule things such as car problems, etc. , take a look around. It finally got to the point where my FH nicknamed me the bad luck character from the Flintstones, Shleprock.  Craziness.  

Pray and look for peace.  We're hear for you. And praying for you too.

I'm so sorry to hear about this :( You are in my prayers.

my prayers are with you and your family, I can't even imagine what it must feel like to lose a sibling.

your in my thoughts

Diana

I am so sorry! What a terrible thing to have happen! I will pray for peace and justice for you and your family!

I am truely sorry to hear about the loss of your brother and pregnancy...my heart and prayers go out to you and your entire family!

awww Jess, I'm sooo sooo sooo Sorry! I had no idea, You and your Family are in my prayers and I hope Everything gets better for you!

Oh my, this is horrible news. I will pray for you Jessica and your family. During this time of the year, it's really tough. Keep faith in your heart and you will soon be compensated. Amen!

first here is a BIG (((HUG))), and of course we will keep you in our prayers!

Advice given to me: "I can not promise the pain will go away, but I will promise it does get easier to deal with"  Strive for brighter days, I highly encourage you to talk about him especially to his kids.  My nephew lost his dad and he LOVES hearing about his dad now that the shock has gone away.  It may be suprising but depending on their age and your relationship with his kids they may be a great source for helping you grieve.  You will love talking about the happy times, and they will love even more hearing about them.

I am so sorry for your loss and I will pray your patience and strength.

I'm so sorry to hear that! That just made me so sad. But know that now he is in better hands then we all are. God needed an angel and he couldn't find a better one. You and your family are in my prayers! God bless xox

i pray that your family is ohk.. i am so sorry for your loss!!

Oh dear, dear girl... I can see how incredible close you were... looking at you together in those photos....what an amazing amazing man he must have been. Praise God he was there for your wedding. He lives on in your hearts. Keep him alive there!! I am teary just thinking about it but I hope there are many close friends to provide peace and comfort right now, and remember than our Heavenly Father knows when the smallest sparrow falls to the ground. He will not forget your brother.

Prayers for you xoxo

My prayers are with you and your family during this time!

To say that I understand what you are going through would be a lie as this is beyond what I ever hope to comprehend. Jessica, you are in my prayers along with your family. I am so very sorry and wish that there was something that any of us can do to make this easier. What I do know is the love and comfort that only God can bring so I pray that over your life right now. On my way home from work today, I was listening to the radio and there was a story being told by a father whose wife and children were murdered in the middle of the night and he survived and he spoke about his journey and the road to forgiveness and healing. I haven't been on this site in a very long time and I just happened to log in and I immediately came across your post. I feel that maybe I should share the book he wrote with you. It is called Terror by night, by Terry caffey. I haven't read it, but his story is one of going through a tragic murder of his family and how he got through it. I love you and am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful brother.

Im so sorry for what you are going through, I will keep you in my prayers, May God give you and your family strength, and may he look over your brother's beautiful children!

God be with you!

Jessica my prayers are with you and your family, it's never easy to lose someone you love but to have it happen so suddenly and tragically just leaves you spinning.  Everyone seems to know what to say to someone if the person they loved died after a long illness etc. but people avoid you when it is sudden because they don't know what to say but they still feel for you.  I hope the pain in your heart fades and your memories never do.  God Bless

Oh sweetie i'm so sorry for you and your family :( I know he's watching over you and how difficult this must be for you. Sweetheart you are in my prayers. xoxoxo

Oh sweetie, I am so terribly sorry to hear of your loss.  I am just speechless.  Please let me know if there's anything you need.  I know we don't know eachother, only through this website but my heart really goes out to you.  I will pray for you tonight, and hope you're able to get some counseling, and lean on your husband and family during this difficult time.  

xo

I am so sorry my heart truely goes out to you and your family. I will pray for you.

I am so terribly sorry for your losses. You will be in my prayers. :)

Oh Jessica, what awful news for you and your family, I am so sorry to hear this.  I will keep you all in my prayers.  I hope there is justice for your brother and that you and your husband are blessed with a little one soon.  Stay Strong.

Jessica, I have been way behind on reading posts and was so saddened to read this.  I pray strength & peace to you and your family during this time.  Email anytime....((tight hugs)).

First off i just wanna say im very sorry for your loss! Second i wanna tell you i know exactly how you feel right now! My 15 year old brother was killed a year ago in a hunting accident when a gun malfunctioned! Its not fair at all and i will never understand why he was taken! I know how unbelieveably hard it is evryday but even tho its unfair to us i would rather have him up there then down here dealing with the things that go on in this world! Im new to the wbc but if you need sumone to talk to im here!

Wow. I'm so sorry that you're going through all that. It must be really ripping you apart. I cant imagine how it feels :
You, and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. <3