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Crossing Over? Groomswoman & Bridesmen

Yes we went there!

One of our close friends, named B, is a groomswoman. She and my FH met in undergrad and they have remained friends long after graduation. Our groomswoman and I have been friends for a few years, but not nearly as long as FH and she have been acquainted. She is an awesome, funny, smart, talented, and creative person.

We really wanted her apart of our wedding party. So we asked B if she'd do us the honor of joining the bridal party. It was more fitting for her to be a groomswoman because she was more apart of the pack of guys and friends from FH college days. FH and I asked her if she wouldn't mind being a groomswoman. She gladly accepted.

B was fitted for a tux and accessorized at Men's Warehouse with FH and the groomsmen on the day that they all went together. It was her choice to wear a tuxedo. We told her if she wanted to wear a dress it was fine, but B said she'd feel more comfortable in a tux and being apart of the wedding party as a groomswoman.

This is apart of what FH and I love about her: her loyalty, friendship, and most of all her comfort with who she is. B is a beautiful person. We are so glad to have her in our wedding party as a groomswoman.

My question is this: How do you feel about the crossover roles of groomswomen and bridesmen? Is it too non-tradional? Is it morally offensive? Taboo? Acceptable? New? What do you think? Thoughts?
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alecia's Black wedding
alecia
 |  Bismarck, ND, USA  |  07/11/2012  | 
It is very non-traditional, but in a good way. My cousin actually had her brother be the man of honor and she also had a maidofhonor as well. In my opinon, she should have worn a dress, maybe a black dress to match the tuxes or whatever color they will be. Since my cousin would have never worn a dress to be the man of honor.. lol
I like th idea. I have a gay guy that I am really close to at work, he is the receptionist and if I would be having maids and groomsmen, I would consider having him as a man-maid.. lol  I like the idea though!!  :)
flrjohnson's Red wedding
flrjohnson
 |  Atlanta, GA, USA  |  07/11/2012  | 
LOL Alecia. A man-maid? That's so cute. I think it's really called a Bridesman. Kinda like a Bridesmaid, but with the man instead of a maid (a girl). I think B felt more comfortable in a tux instead of a dress, and that's cool with me. I want everyone to be comfortable and happy.
alecia's Black wedding
alecia
 |  Bismarck, ND, USA  |  07/11/2012  | 
Totally!!.. haha "blonde moment" ....  ;)
hoitytoitygaudybride27's Black wedding
hoitytoitygaudybride27
 |  Lawrenceville, GA, USA  |  07/11/2012  | 
I never hear of that! It is non traditional, but a new idea. At least it's new to me! I don't think there is anything wrong with it especially if you have a close friend and you really want them to be by your side. If they are not close to you but closer to the FH then why not include them. Your friend is cool to wear a tux like the guys. It's tenacious of her haha
mz2handgrip's Blue wedding
mz2handgrip
 |  Milwaukee, WI, USA  |  07/11/2012  | 
I love non-traditional aspects of weddings. It's what makes them unique. Just think how amazing the pics will be!!! Can't wait to see your recaps!!!
flrjohnson's Red wedding
flrjohnson
 |  Atlanta, GA, USA  |  07/12/2012  | 
I know it's non-traditional but it's actually becoming popular. I think it's a great idea to include close friends, no matter their sex in the wedding party supporting the side that's closest to them. If it were a guy and he wanted to be a bridesman he'd still have the choice to wear a tux or a dress. I wouldn't care as long as he's happy. It would make for some hilarious photos hahaha
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Otaku
 |  Atlanta, GA, USA  |  07/14/2012  | 
I like the idea because, as you all have mentioned, you're including your friends and family in your special day, regardless of gender. Tradition shouldn't outweigh everyone's happiness. :P
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Cherry22
 |  Atlanta, GA, USA  |  07/18/2012  | 
It's a good idea. Why not let your loved one be beside you wherever they fit? Who cares what the gender is?
prettyjustice's Green wedding
prettyjustice
 |  USA  |  07/19/2012  | 
My step daughter will be standing with her father as grooms women etc lol I think its perfectly find...as long as your happy
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