May 8th now..
Our wedding day got moved up about 2 weeks and now we have less than a year.. I feel like im sooo behind..
The only things i really have done right now is
the church is booked and so is the reception hall.. As well as the DJ.. also i know whos doing the cake..
So i stilll need..
I need to Make my Card box.
Make LOVE out of wood.. And I DO
Toasting Fluets and Cake Cutters
Ring Bear Pillow
and probably sooooo mcuh more that i cant think of..
O MAN i gotta get a move on things..
Okay Ladies i need help and ideas on what to do..
Okay So about a year and a hlaf ago i had my first little boy. Before i was pregnant with him i weighted 135 then i gained about 60 lbs during the pregnancy then dropped about 30. So im still about 30 lbs over my normal weight and i really want to get back down to that size. Although i just feel like i dont have the energy to excersize. And i want to start eating healthier but everyone i am around is always eating junk.. So i guess im so confussed on what i should do for myself to lose weight and i would love to here all of your guys stories on how you have lost wieght and what has helped you out..
I have heard some things about Acai Berry and a Colon Clense but i dont know the exact products to get and i want to know if that truely does work. Because to me i feel like that might be something i need to help me lose weight because im not as motivated as i should be to work out everyday or everyother day.
This is because i have been so busy with school work and then taking care of my 1 1/2 yr old son,
So please if you ahve any ideas at all.. PLEASE HELP ME..
to do list
Finally i feel like i am on track with everything going on with the wedding!
I finally paid for the church and have the reception hall booked. Which were the 2 things i was most worried about as of now. So im so happy to have those out of the way.
the next thing im going to be working on is finding a different photographer.
I also have my cake person booked.
I know i still have SOO much to do but im so glad to finally get things moving so when everything gets close i wont feel so rushed.!
My to Do list..
Find a photographer
Find out what im doing with flowers and such..
Find Bridesmaid Dresses... ( I DON"T KNOW WHERE TO LOOK FOR CUTE TEA LENGTH FUSIA DRESSES) ANY IDEAS??????
All the wedding accesories.. Candels.. center pieces.. cake cutters.. toasting flutes.. and so on.
MY DIY activities...
Going and trying on dresses
and SOOO much more...
wow this is more over whelming than i ever thought..
Finally we found where we are having out reception and our wedding and we finally are booking both of them. I am so excited to juyst have that big part out of the way.
I feel like after have these to things out of the way everything else will fall into place and i may not be a stressed out.
The only thing about the reception hall is that it will need a lot of decorating but its really nice on the outside and even the inside.. its a huge area..
IM sooooooo excited and ready for the big day to just be here already.
Okay so im really struggling on what kind of centerpieces to use..
The one thing i do know is i dont want flowers..
I want candels.. Maybe A little bit a peddles from the flowers.. but other than that im lost
I sort of what it to be unique but i also want it to be fun and elegant..
am i asking to much?
Does anyone have any cute fun ideas..
The one thing i do love it the martine glass ideas.. but im not sure what to put in them and how to decorate it all nice..
...... sooo confussed
Okay so i know everything i want.. i know where i want the receptiong and the wedding.. i know what kind of flowers i want and im pretty positive on the photographer now.. I know what kind of cake i want and whos doing it..
The only thing left now is to actually put the down payments on everything
i know 15 montsh seems like a long wyas.. but holy crap its sooo not.. i feel like even though i have most things figured out i still have SOOOO many little things to do..
But im so excited for these 15 months to past because i am soo ready to marry my best friend and the love of my life..
how much is to much..
I debating really hard between two different photographers..
one is 1700, while the other is 1,250..
i know thats a huge different..
the 1700 includes 8 hrs of wedding and reception,.
a dvd of all the pictures on it and all the pictured are touched up already.. in black and white sapia and everything you cna imagin. also this would allow us to print any pictures we would like ..
the 1250 includes a dvd as well but isn't touched up at all. also it inclues an engagment session and wedding announcments. the only problem is i dont need the wedding annoncements.. but i would have to get them anyway.. also this incles the whole wedding and only 2 hrs of the reception..
what one would u go with.. the first or the second one..?
So im stuck on flowers. and i was wondering what people's ranges were with how much they spent on their flowers for the bride, brides maids and groomsman? it would b great help
furture mother in law(step)
Does anyone have problems with family members and planning their wedding..
I know money is important and i dont want an expensive wedding but for some reason my FH step mother wants to plan everything and she dosnt want us to have anyone thats not family be involved in the wedding..
She wants her aunt to do the cake
her friend to do the photography
her other firends do the catering
and someone she knows do the DJ
and shes doing the invites
and she wants us to buy wholesale flowers and make them ourselevs..
I am so over whelmed
For me a wedding is something i want to plan and yeah i want it a little cheap but i also want my own photographer and find stuff on my own and not have things pushed on me..
And shes so controlling that she probably isn't even going to help pay for the wedding thats why she wants us to have friends and family do everything..
Idk if this all sounds stupid or not but to me its not because she really tries to controll everything and i dont know what to do anymore because the last thing i want is for her to controll my wedding..