So it turns out we are renting the candelabras from our family friend like i last mentioned!! I just dont know how much she wants us to rent them for. knowing her (she's on the wealthy side) she will just say use them for free, which would be great. but i dont want her to think i'm taking advantage of her wealth. so we shall she what the price will be, but at least i know we get to use them!!!! :-D